Summerhilchild, 71

gosh i'm a senior??!! well if thats what you call it...i have made the best of myself and my situation every step of the way in my life, often in the face of great hardship. i am not finished with myself yet, always doing my best to become more mature, wise, insightful and loving. i try to be fully present for anyone i am with. i am an artist/writer/poet; deep thinkers and philosophers run in the family. it is important to me to be with someone who is emotionally honest and open, someone self aware and in touch with themselves, with insight and introspection. someone without anger issues, either overt or covert (sabatoge, paybacks, hostility etc,) Tolerance for togetherness, intimate sharing and talk, cuddling, affection, kissing and a high degree of intimacy is vital. looking for someone who isnt burned out, used up, has bad feelings towards women in general due to bad experiences/marriage, or has been made too cynical by life's disappointments and hardship to be able to be vulnerable and tender.