Ru4menowcom, 79

I just turned 63, moved to MA from CO one month ago, took early retirement and love it here. I have 4 childen, 3 grandchildren and 1 great-granddaughter. I have been widowed for years but the men I have met, albeit not all of them, were too serious to really have fun. I love walking on the beach barefoot at night to feel the sand squish through my toes. Trips, especially by train, are so neat! I want to find a fella who likes to hold hands, laugh, act silly sometimes, be spontaneous, is not controlling but is a gentleman (opens doors), affectionate, can tease and be teased and does not get crazy if I want some "me" time. I like to cuddle, eat grapes in bed while I watch t.v or read, spoil my dog, and am extremely personable engaging in conversations with many people I do and do not know. I am "such a girl" as many people tell me because I am very feminine, however I do have days when I look like I just got out of bed with my hair a mess and wearing jeans and tees. I have no plans for a serious relationship at this time. I am a free spirit, my sign is Pisces and I enjoy where I am in life curently.