Divagmv364, 81

What are you doing the rest of your life? Being a petite, funny, intelligent,retired journailst,smoker, and widow for 10-odd years now, I am waiting to be found by a God-fearing, funny, intelligent, smoker, widower.

I believe that widows and widowers were born winners, in that they have interminably honored, valued their partner's passing, and remained single, and, perhaps will be joyous and grateful, that in God's time, they will again, be gifted with a good friend and companion.

It would be nice if he likes smooth jazz, Brazilian music, classical light, and crossover.

Additionally, he can be sure that when my best friend, companion finds me, snoring on both sides will be mutually appreciated, accepted (not merely tolerated) as I don't know of anyone who doesn't snore.

An inimitable sense of humor would be great, as it can be a redeeming factor when the situation is looking south, and together, as one, we can weather this situation, and others, and become better, stronger for it.

I would like to be the one to hear his secret wish when he blows the candles on his birthday cake, and ask: What are you doing the rest of your life?