dating

[nottoold54]

what ive see on these dating sites are men who look at your profile but never reply.they all say lookin for a good woman ,so how do they know if theu wot talk to you?

[sweetbabydoll (deleted)]

You got that right. I have checked out a couple dating sites and I wasn't impressed at all.

[dancingcowboy]

Well I just thought I would tell you ladys why I skip over some of you..You say you want honesty,,But you post a picture that is 10 yrs old,,or tell us guys that you won't move..So We guys move on..So be honesty to us as you want us to be with you..

[sky321]

Didn't know this was stricktly a dating site. I never reply to a profile. I go to the chat rooms and try to get to know a person. Unfortunetly, there are very few people in the chat rooms. Why not come to the chat rooms and see if you can meet some interesting people. sky321

[have2sail (deleted)]

.Am new to this, though it seems more likely that I'd be able to find a partner online than in the available local places (bars, etc.). I've never been in a chat room, either. So, who's here?

[have2sail (deleted)]

`sweetbabydoll - what has your experience with online dating been? Mine's been pretty good - met some very nice guys, but none of them could or do travel so there weren't second dates. I'm sure about what I'm looking for, and that's someone to travel with. I thought it stupid to lie about myself, since honesty is such a big deal wth me, and the other person's going to find out sooner or later. Anything I should watch out for?

[apple940 (deleted)]

.no problem

[silverwolf60_PREV (deleted)]

dancingcowboy wrote: Well I just thought I would tell you ladys why I skip over some of you..You say you want honesty,,But you post a picture that is 10 yrs old,,or tell us guys that you won't move..So We guys move on..So be honesty to us as you want us to be with you..



Well, Dancingboy, if you want to talk about honesty, why is it that when a woman posts a current picture, she is totally overlooked. Are all men just into the physical aspect of things? You say you want honest, but your reaction says you want physical beauty only and if that is the kind of honesty you want, then please stay away. No wonder women don't want to post photos![/b]

silverwolf60

[silverwolf60_PREV (deleted)]

sky321 wrote: Didn't know this was stricktly a dating site. I never reply to a profile. I go to the chat rooms and try to get to know a person. Unfortunetly, there are very few people in the chat rooms. Why not come to the chat rooms and see if you can meet some interesting people. sky321



Just joined and don't know how to do chat rooms yet.


silverwolf60

[ballyme (deleted)]

.dont make it to late---i dont handle anticipation to well

[tammyb112]

`I just joined this group.
I am a 56 year old widow.
It is hard for me to get used to the idea of dating other people after being with the same person for so long.
I thought I was with a life partner.
It goes to show you, you never know.

[deann50 (deleted)]

`I have been scammed on dating sites by overseas guys who lie, the local guys won't even talk to me unless it's to know how quick I'll hop into bed with them. and why should I have to be the one to move? I own my home too and I have people to take care of here. and sky, there's no one on chat to talk to.

[oldkid]

`Ladies, as for your profile and what I look for:
1. If your shorter than me and weigh more = Not interested
2. If you smoke = Not interested
3. If you give off a moralistic attitude = Not interested
4. If you want to be married = Not interested
5. If your a couch potatoe = Not interested

Now, anybody left?????

[chuckcobb081956 (deleted)]

Well ladies, I can't speak for all men. I think we all have our "wish list" when it comes to looking for that special gal. But it's been my experience that the opposite of your concern is also true. I've been on other dating sites, the Lava Life for us middle aged and older folk (Prime) which is a pay site of course. TONS of people there compared to here which is too bad because I like this site. But I've written a TON of emails, really put my self out there, and do I get replies???? rarely! I figure it can't be body odour. So either my picture is a turn off or my profile description is. You tell me ladies. I'm the same guy on both sites.

Another issue here is that due to the extreme 'lackage" of people, we're chatting with folks from all over. I might like that nice lady from Oregon, but that is a long way from Hamilton Ontario Canada. But yes, I too am looking for a "good woman". and appearances are not my primary concern. But it is truly disappointing that at this stage of life, it still is for so many, men AND women. This is no better than the "bad old days" of singles bars.

[jc123 (deleted)]

[quote="nottoold54"]what ive see on these dating sites are men who look at your profile but never reply.they all say lookin for a good woman ,so how do they know if theu wot talk to you?

i find everything has to be paid for, cant find any chatrooms that you can get into.Its very complicated on this site